Size is not as important as men tend to believe. Men tend to believe that the larger the penis the better that man is in bed, and that is not the case. You may disagree with me, but I'm pretty sure that a straight woman is a better source than any straight man on this topic. That being said I suppose I will just answer. Out of the two I would say that girth would be more important. That is simply because you may have a penis that is 10 inches long, but only half of that length will even be able to fit inside a woman. The length that can fit inside a woman is limited whereas the girth is not.

2) Do women really like bald men? If so, why are men always worried about losing their hair?
Asked by Paul M. from Seattle, WA

Asking if women like bald men is like asking if women like blond men. It's all a matter of personal preference. I would say that there is quite a large percentage of women who think bald men are sexy. My sister is 20 years old and loves bald men. I think men worrying about losing their hair is more a personal battle with dealing with aging rather than worrying about women not finding them attractive.

3) If a man offers a girl a foot rub, does she think he has ulterior motives?
Asked by Timothy A. from Provo, UT

There are women out there who think every nice thing a man does is some way to get into her pants. There are also men out there who only do these nice things when they want to have sex, so I guess it all balances out. On the whole, I don't believe that a woman will believe you have ulterior motives if you offer to give her a foot rub. Offer a back rub, however, and that's a different story.

4) How can you tell when infatuation for a girl has turned into love?
Asked by Charlie H. from Flint, MI

This is a question that only you can answer. You are the only person who can possibly know when you have crossed the infatuation line and have fallen in love. One piece of advice; if you question whether you are in love then you are not in love.

5) Why is it that men are praised for racking up sexual conquests and women are not?
Asked by Tino V. from Oakland, CA

If you figure out the answer to this question please let me know because all women would like to know the answer to this as well. In general, society sees human males as it sees any other male animal. Many different species of animals have males who are not monogamous and have an innate urge to "spread their seed". There are people in this world, men and women alike, who believe that men are incapable of being faithful and monogamous because of this. This separates men from women, and somehow it becomes accepted that men sleep around. Women, however, don't have the ability to "spread their seed" so there is no acceptable reason a woman could have for sleeping around.

This is all well and good if these men were looking to pass their genes on to the next generation. However, most men who have sex with multiple partners have protected sex, and do not want children to come out of their night of fun. This supposedly innate urge to pass on their genes is now invalid when males choose to use a condom. So, basically, who the hell knows. People just like to make up a scientific explanation as to why men can have sex with whomever they like in the hopes that nobody will question their scientific lingo.

6) My girlfriend and I have been exclusive for 9 months. I now feel a strong desire to make things non-exclusive again. Is there anyway to still date my girlfriend...and others? Do I have to break up with her?
Asked by Reggie S. from Wixom, MI

I do not see any way that this is possible. It may be understandable if you told her that you wanted to take a break for a little while to figure out what you want in a relationship. When you are exclusive with a woman for almost a year then decide that you want her AND other women she will take it as a slap in the face. You may as well tell her that she doesn't make you happy enough and you would like other women to satisfy your needs. Not to mention that when a woman is looking for a commitment she is looking to find the person she wants to be with for the rest of her life. If she sees that your relationship is regressing she will most likely want to move on and find a man who wants to be in a committed relationship. She definitely won't want to be with a man who isn't completely satisfied with being with her and only her.

7) Is it true that the more piercings a girl has the more sexually adventurous she is?
Asked by Scott H. from Roswell, GA

There is a correlation between the two I'm sure, but that doesn't mean that a woman with ten piercings is more sexually adventurous than someone with one or two. Normally when a woman has piercings she is open minded, which may mean that she is also open minded in the bedroom. A woman who has no piercings could possibly be a bit conservative, or it could mean that she doesn't like the look of piercings or could possibly have a fear of needles. There is no definite yes or no answer here, although there is a strong correlation.